for a guy to call/text you after the first date if he is into you?
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So there are a bunch of stupid rules from movies like swingers etc. Basically the smart thing to do and what I always do is to call or text the next day saying I had a good time and maybe setting up something else to do. A lot of guys go with the 3 day rule which is way over-generalized. Here's the thing though. You're a grown woman and you don't need to wait for him to contact you. There's nothing wrong with you shooting him a random text to see if you can spark up a conversation. Maybe he is shy and will wait longer to build up courage or maybe he wants to wait to hear from you. Guys are crazy and the only way to get after what you're after is to go out and take it yourself!0