I love having a good time and do go out every once in a while. But I'm not crazy about going out to parties like everyone else at college. I would rather do fun things sober but I feel like I won't meet many girls because most go out ALL the time. And if you don't party, you may be seen as boring:(.
Does anyone have any tips for meeting and hanging with girls outside the party scene?
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i party but I definitly go through phases where I don't do it for a while then I will again. I DO NOT expect to meet a potential boyfriend partying because to me a lot of those people just want hook ups.
so to meet other people who really have to put yourself out there. like you have to actually go up to people in public and introduce yourself, like meeting girls at the mall or at the gym, or at starbucks or chapterss which might sound lame but I go there all the time to buy books and meeting guys there is fun because thet actually seem intelligent lol...at work, at the blockbuster through other friends, you just have to be creative in looking and then have the confidence to approach them1