It seems as if all that is left after age 20 are not so good looking people, people with bad personalities or players/sluts. Other than that everyone I find attractive is taken.
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I am 23 and never had a girlfriend and probably never will. Although I have social anxiety and depression and am taking medication for all of that to help me cope, so I guess I'm not 'normal'.
Part of the reason is lack of initiative - however I was surrounded by negative experiences and people throughout most of my life so overcoming those at this point is extremely difficult - I can hardly look at a woman at this point let alone talk. Most of the women I've spoken with in my life initiated the conversation.
Despite these issues however, I have dated before. Once it was setup by a coworker - ended bad. Other time the woman asked me out on two occaisions - I started ignoring her because of my own insecurities. And another time I asked a woman out - how the hell I did this I have no idea, took 8 months of trying to convince myself; she is still to date the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She was a bartender/manager with a lot of connections, super outgoing, friendly, smart and I was comfortable around her and felt really good chemistry early on. But again, it ended badly
So I guess if I can get more than one date, and actually go out with a woman WAY out of my league more than once - despite all the bs problems I have - you can too. Its just that most things don't happen as fast or as often as it does for others2