I am dating a girl and she works a lot, it seems like every time I ask her to come over now she is busy working or tired. She still texts me pretty much every day though, so what is up? I would think she is not interested but then why the hell would she keep talking to me and acts all flirty while messaging me, but never wants to hang out. I'm almost ready to write her off but trying to figure out what is going on in her head.
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I dated a girl once that sort of put me in that same sort of situation. I just figured her reasons were authentic and I'd give her room and time to rest. So she'd pretty much decide when we could hang out and do things together. Turns out she still kept close to her ex-husband and he frequented her place and spent a-lot of time around her. Once I caught on I bounced. However, another girl I dated with the same characteristics worked nights and was genuinely worn out a good portion of the time. (during daylight hours anyway) She would always want me to come over to her place though. (which I didn't mind) I'd cook with her. Bathe with her. Give her rub downs and try to relax her as much as possible, but she wouldn't hesitate to see me. I think that was the key difference between the two. There's gotta be a reason she's trying to be distant yeah? It's convenient to send texts whenever or wherever you are.1