i have a booty call buddy and we been doing this for 2 years now and at the beginning he kind of called for it a bit and even would text me how my day was a lot almost everyday. Well, after a while, things started to change. Lately, I been the one calling for it and not him, and I would go weeks or a month before I call him to come over, but he never calls me for it anymore. Plus he stopped texting me like he use to completely. I mean I know I got good stuff if whenever I ask him to come, he always comes, but if its that good, why isn't he calling me for I sometimes? I rarely call for it . What's this mean?
Was it not that good?
What Guys Said 3
he either got tired of almost always being th one to call, or he's seeing somebody...2
Sounds like he has a girlfriend now and she takes his time now.2
What Girls Said 3
I'm guessing he lost the excitement in chasing for it. I mean of course he won't turn down sex if its offered, but its not worth it to him to chase anymore. That's kind of part of the "booty call" arrangement. It's unnecessary to do things that make the other feel good emotionally, like ask how your day is, that's what a boyfriend is for. A booty call is all for the sex. Plus, if he's not lifting a finger and you're still calling him to offer sex, what's the incentive for him to try?0
He very well might be getting some elsewhere also or his life is changing to where the booty call is on his back burner.
You call, he thinks what the heck, comes over, gets some pu**y and is happy till you call him again.1
Idk. Maybe he found another girl or maybe since you always call him for it, he doesn't feel the need to call you anymore.1
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