I was raised that a man should pay for the dates. ((If they are a couple then she can treat him, or go half, but just "dating then he should pay)). All the guys I've been out with have paid or stopped me from paying when I tried. Am I being unrealistic to expect a guy to pay for the whole date? I know a lot of girls are going dutch now and even paying for their dates themselves. I don't want him to think I'm a gold-digger for not paying, but I just feel a little uncomfortable with that.What do you think?
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I think that in the very beginning a guy should pay ,( this is what I was brought up believing) but as time goes by we as females she be courteous enough to offer . I don't feel that comfortable with guys footing the bill for me so to put myself at ease I always offer to pay for something. That lets them know that I'm grateful and more then willing to go half when and if they don't have the means to foot the bill. And then it gets a little tricky because you start wondering if you ask him out to lunch who pays ? I guess that all depends on the two people at hand.0