how can people NOT want to pursue a serious relationship? why date someone only for a while instead of finding someone worth marrying one day? all I personally want is someone to be with forever... I couldn't date a girl I didn't see a future with or that I knew I'd just want to leave later.
how can girls especially, pursue "mr right now" instead of mr right? I don't see the appeal in casual dating like that. if you love someone or see them as a future mate, why pass up on the opportunity to date them because they aren't "mr right now"?
idk to me, modern dating seems pointless.
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I think sometimes that casual dating can help shape the archetype of what you are looking for in a long term relationship.
Sometimes you just want companionship but you aren't at a place in your life where a long term relationship is possible.
Maybe you're afraid to be in a long term relationship because of the expectations it usually leads to.
Maybe you don't believe in marriage at all.
Could be lots of things.
Hope that helps!0