I am a single Mom of 2 young daughters. I would not have a problem with it as long as I liked him enough and everything could still work out! I think GOOD dads. single fathers. are the sexiest kind anyway ;-) What do you all think? Do you shy away from men with kids?
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For me it is both a GIFT and a CURSE. I love kids , but because I myself don't have any at this point there are just something's I can't relate to on that level. You have to not only make a child comfortable with you being around , but make sure you yourself are comfortable around that child. Then there is the matter of that child's other parent I'm only 23, ( which is fairly still young) I don't know to many girls ( in particular) that can handle another female being in the picture without feeling that she's trying to '' take her place '' . I know there are guys out there like that , but girls are at times a little more opinionated on that subject. These are not things I'm assuming , but things that I have had happen to me. I ONCE dated a guy with a child and his son's mother WOULDN'T let go I wasn't use to that ,and although I'm always in it to win it I knew it wasn't going to work. This is not to say that it will be like this with every person , but you can't be naive about certain things. So to answer your question I don't shy away from guys with kids , but I would prefer if that a guy had one it would be with me.1