I met this guy one month ago at a dance club. He got my number. We've been texting and have gone on 5 dates. He only calls me to make plans. On Tuesday we went to a baseball game and the next day he left to go on a business trip. When he said bye to me on Tuesday he said "I'll see you next week" and I told him to have fun. I did not here from him Wednesday at all. On Thursday I sent a friendly text that said hope he is having fun. He responded with a nice text that he was and he hopes my day is going well. Today no communication. He gets back tomorrow. Should I wait for him to contact me next?
Should I contact or wait?
What Guys Said 2
I think at a certain point (that is after 5 dates), you guys should be able to talk without having a date set up. To be honest, you might chase him away a bit by asking him about it, but at the same time, if you don't start talking between dates, you can't think you'll have a great relationship. It's a toughie.
For me at least, a couple of things.
1. Girls take texting, facebook, too seriously, he may just not like it for fear of saying something wrong.
2. He might just suck at texting.0
Not at all! Wait if you want to but there is definately no problem with a friendly email/ text/ call. If he's busy he's busy. But he will appreciate it!0
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