There's a girl I've been going to school with for the past 3-4 years and she's been hitting on me...but she's pregnant (I think she is due in October.). I hung out with her by accident sorta last night and honestly I had a lot of fun hanging out with her and I always kinda liked her I just figured I wasn't her type. I'm 18 and she's 17 and were entering our senior year of high school.
I know it's a lot of baggage but I personally don't see how its not a roadblock that can be hurdled. My best friend thinks I'm crazy and it's going to ruin my life but I actually like this girl and the dad is a total prick (go figure.) and I think she wants someone to help her. I have a few girls who want me to hangout with them and all this stuff and I had way more fun with the pregnant girl then I did any of them and I like spending time with her. The way I see it if she wasn't pregnant I would date her over the other girls that have been trying to talk to me so why would I let something like this stop me?
Idk is this just stupid for me to be feeling this way and hanging out with her when I could just date someone who isn't pregnant. Just confused right now.
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I don't think it is stupid of you to like her but, yes, your friends are right to be concerned about what kind of drama you will be in for if you date her.
I personally would just take it slow. She's going to have her hands full soon, with a new baby, and that would make it real tough for anyone to date. She's also trying to finish school, hopefully. She is probably going to be very emotional for a bit after having her baby and she may also have an attachment to her baby's father, even if he is a jerk. You may not enjoy the ups and downs of trying to connect with a girl who has a new baby and a lot on her mind. She's not exactly living the carefree teenage life with free time for dates.