Please help me figure this out: Ok, there is this guy that some people think he likes me since he asks about me and tells me hey and all.anyway, we have been talking some on Facebook, you know, not too much but some. Anyway, I put my phone number on Facebook (he did not have it before I had not given it to him), and yesterday morning I got a text message from him, keep in mind he had to get my cell phone off Facebook, saying that it was his Birthday and he wanted to be impulsive, get outdoors and take a break from work, and even though I might think he was crazy, and he said that he knows we had never even talked on the phone, but he wanted to know if I wanted to go do something with him for the day, so it was up to me to break the ice (I didn't understand what this meant). He said he would love to have some company. Anyway, I said I'd love to so we spent the entire day together talking, went out to eat for lunch (and he wouldn't let me pay by the way) fishing, and being outdoors. We really had fun but the thing is I don't know if he was just asking me as a friend or was it a date? He said he wanted to get outdoors since he has been working so hard. We had never talked on the phone before or spent time alone until yesterday and we spent the entire day together. I just can't believe that he chose to spend his Birthday with me, it made me feel special and it was kind of a relief to actually finally get to be alone with him since I have been crushing on him. We didn't kiss or hold hands or anything, just hugged and they weren't short but not too long if you know what I mean. He said we will have to do it again soon and he enjoyed it. He also said he would call me before I left and I said I yeah call me anytime. Bottom line: Is he A.) into me and was this a date or was he B.) just trying to get away from everything and be my friend? Also, should I email him and tell him I enjoyed being with him yesterday or would that be pushing it? Please tell me what you think! Thanks!
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A) YES, it was definitely a date.
B) He REALLY likes you! There is no doubt about that! ;-)
Did you tell him you enjoyed yourself before he dropped you off home?. If you did, there is no need for you to call or email him. That is more than enough.