I am a 20 year old guy and I have never kissed a girl... not because I am jacked up and ugly, but because I have chosen not to. I have saved my first kiss for my first real love and I have yet to have found that. I have dated a lot of girls and I am currently talking to one so it's not that I haven't had the chance.
Do you think it is weird?
Is it a turn off?
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i think you need to rethink your logic. like the people in the comments below have stated, we seem to have this warped idea that once we find someone we love, everything will perfectly fall into place and music pops into the background with fireworks. alas, that is hardly ever the case. kissing, especially when you like someone, is a great way of expressing your desire and I see no reason why anyone should deprive themselves of that. along with the notion that people should wait until they are married to have sex, kissing is a natural part of human interactions. with the practice someone can get, you can learn several ways to kiss a girl and how to make it romantic or more pleasurable. I don't think its a turn off if someone is open to the idea but if he refuses point blank then I would definitely find something better. sexuality isn't anything final; it is a part in people's lives which they should enjoy like an adventure with no destination...enjoy kissing, enjoy playing life's too short for irrational rules0