..online. I know some of you do not believe in liking somebody over the internet, and I did once too...but wow my views have changed! This guy is completely perfect for me and we are perfect for each other. The problem is..he only thinks of me as a friend and says he's not ready for a relationship. Should I continue being his friend or what should I do?
He lives a thousand miles away which sucks even more :/
It's weird because we are EXACTLY, and I mean E.X.A.C.T.L.Y, the same and he's the one I've been looking for all along and it hurts me that he doesn't want a relationship :( What should I do for now?
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First of all... we're ALL perfect on the internet. We can be anybody we want to be - say anything we want to say - and pretend to be single, married, no kids, never in jail, blah blah blah. Honey, this is not a "relationship".. Relationhips are day to day contact - in person - ? How do you date a guy a thousand miles away? You have NO Idea if this guy has a girlfriend ( and isn't telling you .. why should he?) or that anything he's told you is true. He may just be agreeing with you - or could he be bored at night and needs someone on the other end of his computer? I'm sure you're a very nice girl. There is NO future in this... and NO, this is NOT a relationship.. It's an internet friend. That's it. Please don't believe in some fantasy that will never come true. Just chat on the internet if you want to - but don't ever think of this guy as your boyfriend.. He isn't. Find a nice guy in your town who you can date - hug - go out to eat with - go to movies, etc. etc. Who are you going to date on weekends? Who will take you to parties? Dances? Keep your options open here and stay in your own backyard. It's safer. You have NO idea who this guy is. Hugz.1