For me, I feel that people get into relationships just so they can be with someone, or have sex with someone.
But, for me I am looking for a serious relationship, like I am always looking for my wife, but can never find her because all she usually wants to do is party and do stupid things that she wished she didn't do but did it because she was drunk.
I am just wondering why do you want to date someone?
Is it for the relationship, is it for the sex, is it to show off to your friends etc.
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Regardless of the reasons of others, the reason that you continue to fail in your "pursuit" is because you are trying to force something that is not there.
Everyone is not designed for everyone, and a committed relationship, let alone marriage, requires that two people be in-sync with one another.
If you're operating with a different set of ideals and goals than your partner, there is no way that the relationship will be successful.
Further, if you are "looking" for a wife, it's going to manifest itself in everything you do and say to your partner, which likely will cause them to act out worse than they normally would, if they are not looking for the same thing.
Slow down, and realize that marriage, like all things worthy to have, takes time to build, and that you can not make anyone stay in a room with you. If they want to be there, it has to be on their own free will.2