OK, so I'm almost 19... And I've never kissed anybody. Never had a boyfriend.
Most of my friends have had SEX by this time (not that I'm into that right now, one step at a time after all)
get hit on by guys a lot and yes I do find it flattering but I don't really know to handle a relationship because I've never had one in that way. Although I have a few people I have slight crushes on, I can't see me kissing them. I have a bit of a flirtatious personality but I feel like a child not know what to do when the guys try to kiss me. I blush like a maniac and push them away as a reflex. I want to know how to kiss but I have that bad habit and I don't know how to control it.
I kinda feel like I'm a lost cause right now.
any advice would be lovely, thank you.
Most Helpful Girl
So you're 18 and never kissed. I was 24 before I kissed anyone... same guy I had sex with for the first time - and I'm very happy with that. Don't feel like its a big problem or even a big deal, you are who you are. The right time and the right person will come along, and you'll do fine.
If you're pushing them away you probably don't really want to kiss them, am I right? If that's not the case, then maybe you just need to plan ahead and calm yourself down beforehand, but if you haven't found someone you really care for, haven't had more than a 'slight crush', then don't sweat it. You don't have to kiss these guys. Kissing's not that hard, you don't need to get lots of practice!1