Okay, Basically I want an outside opinion of what my next move should be involving this guy that I met two weeks ago. I am very interested in getting to know him, but I have yet to gone out on an actual date with him. I have been over his house a couple of times and hung out with him an his friends. I realize now though that I am not the kind of girl that can have a casual fling with someone and leave it at that. Yes we make out and it's great, but he knows that I am still not going to sleep with him.
I want to know if he is just interested in me physically or if he' actually wants to get to know me for who I am. I have no problem asking this because I am not afraid to talk about anything, but what I do have a problem is WHEN I should ask to avoid seeming 'needy' .. My close friends says to wait after we hang out a couple more times, but as much as I try to not let it bother me- I'm really turned off when he says he'll call the same day or doesn't, or that he'll call to do something the next day and two days end up going by. Yeah, I know that we've only known each other 2 weeks and I never bring it up when I hear from him, but I feel like an idiot showing interest in a guy who may see me as a causal make out buddy or whatever.
Now, is this something guys usually do, or is this a obvious fact that I'm ignoring that means he's not interested? Also, should I just straight up ask him and risk us not talking anymore/ potentially ruining something?
ps: added him on facebook. ;p