I pretty much go to the same places, and hang out with more men than women. I'm not sure of how attractive I am to the opposite sex, but I receive compliments from men fairly often. However, when I go out to bars or out on the town, I don't feel I'm noticed unless I'm wearing something very short. I don't feel I connect well with people, and looks are important to me.
I commit to other hobbies and frequent coffee shops, book stores, and musicians' places fairly frequently. I am friendly with people once I get to know them.
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Sometimes you gotta be daring. Clubs/Bars/Pubs/whatever - they are all social networking points. Online dates are not recommended since there's like scams and you can never know if this guy is real or not. I'd be honest with ya, if I had to find a date and feel like dating - I would go out with my buddies, have a good time in the club and sometimes if you're lucky, you might meet someone.
Be yourself. Looks are important, yes. But in the end, its how you bring yourself about. You need to feel confident! Some people can just go in a club and have everybody noticing her because maybe she got this aura.
Connecting with people is different from everybody: Are you a party girl? Or the decent girl who knows her stuff and guys? etc etc.
I know I can't be serious for relationships and dating is just dating. I'm not looking for a girl to get married with, right? come on lol. So hence connect with the right people.
• Talk to let them know and to find out yourself if this guy is worth a date.
• Know what you want. Be daring. Cos we all live once and live this part once before we are far too old to do anything.
You will find a guy to date. Don't worry. Just be careful and not go 'serious' with somebody, okay!