I like this guy a lot and want a relationship with him but usually (not all the time) it is me texting/calling him. Usually we just "hook up" but lately things have been different making me think he wants more. My friends have told me not to text/call him anymore and leave it up to him. But it has been over a week since I have heard from him, should I text him or leave it up to him? I would really like to see him but don't want to be the one always putting in the effort.
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if you want to talk to him, talk to him. if he's like me then that no calling thing is going to make me think you've decided you're not interested, and I'll bury my feelings and try to disappear.
if he has nights that he opens up more via phone/ text and talks about his family/ past, that's the time to ask him about the future, and move on to your relationship by asking about friends, then segway to yourself, like "so what do you think of (insert mutual friends name)... after he answers go "so what about me?" if he pops friend out quick then that's prob all you are.. if he takes a few secs and kinda meanders around then he's prob intrested in more.
a good way to figure out if a guy you know is into you or not, when you ask him to hang does he every say no? is he willing to go 1/2 hr just to go sit at a campfire with you or even just chill around the house? if so good chance he's interested, and I'd ask... (pls don't be like thoes women that freak out cause he couldn't hang out 1 day and said something legit as a reason... yes, our cars break down and we have issues too :) )
good luck! I hope it works out for ya0