so I had been hanging out with this girl a lot and things seemed to be progressing quite nicely so naturally I said something to her about how we are together often enough that we should just date to which she replied she wasn't looking for a relationship. a few weeks pass and we get in some fight and the next thing I know she is making posts about her boyfriend. I realize it's probably not that she didn't want to date but that she didn't want to date me. sound about right or could there be other explanations?
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Chances are, she sees you as a friend and that's it. I would look into the boyfriend posts (on Facebook, I assume) and see if it's a legitimate boyfriend, or if it's a fake thing, like how girls sometimes refer a gay best friend as their "boyfriend" or be in a fake Facebook relationship with them. Ask one of her friends if she's really seeing someone. At the very least, you've set the foundation for a great friendship with her.