Would I come off as aggressive if I did the asking out instead of waiting for the guy to do it cause I don't want to scare guys away. Also what would be a good way to ask a guy out? Should I just say "Hi I think your cute wanna go on a date" or something else? And if I get nervous would a guy automatically turn me down because when I get nervous it so noticeable like I start to blush A LOT and I'll start talking fast.
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Most of guys for some reason, which is in their nature, are very slow to adapt. No matter how many times you tell him (or do) something, he just doesn't seem to get it.
This is why you need patience.
Don't be offended when you don't get exactly the response you would expect from him. He will listen to you if you stand in front of him with an attitude (but don’t act like you’re his mother), and that will work.
Break that believing that men and women are from different planet, and get to know him. Every day you have a chance to find out something new about him. Use that, and you’ll have a better relationship which gets even better as days go by.
And remember, you must focus on how he thinks, instead of how you think. That is a common mistake that girls do when they try to solve some problem with their man. Be aware the signals you are sending to him.
I offered you help here with some advices, just use them and everything will be just fine. I’m interested to help you, but there are some things you need to learn before it’s too late.
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I wish you good luck with guys!0