Are all the guys on the internet perverted? Every guy that I have talked to in a chatroom are disgusting. All they care about is how you look, they don't talk about anything else. They want to know everything about your body. What the heck? I know that appearances are important, but aren't there any normal guys out there? Going on the internet and being preyed on like some piece of flesh really turns me off of guys! Do these guys actually get attention? If they do, how can girls do that to themselves? It makes girls look like dirt and the guy like a pervert. What a way to taint ones opinion of the oposite sex! Are there actually normal people on the internet? What about online dating? If that is what I get in chatrooms, is online dating the same? Is all the guys care about it just another fling and hot body? Is that why guys go on online dating sites?
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I'm not like that, but I understand that there are people (both women and men) who are. Now, for dating sites, if you've been talking to someone for a while, and are about to meet in real life, it would make sense to know what the person looks like.
I suppose in some cases, it's to avoid the creeps. I sometimes would like to see who I'm talking to. if a girl has swear words shaved or has some sort of "KKK logo" tattooed into her skull, then she's not for me. Lol.
I DO belong to a dating site or two, but I'm not really obsessively looking. I suppose in some ways, it's easier to catch someone's eye than a few words because it's quick and visual. you don't go to a party and say "oooh, I bet she likes the things I do!" It's usually you look at their appearance, and THEN if you're really attracted, you are interested enough to get to know that person.
Past that, there are weirdos, just like anywhere in real life, but you have to know where to go to avoid them.
Don't take this next point to mean that I am blaming you, but I knew a girl who said "Every guy I date is just so kinky!" Well, that's because you're attracted to the guys who happen to think that way; you may not be searching for kinky guys, but for "gutsy, sexually experienced cocky guys," and you'll find those guys who are too abrasive in with the ones you are truly looking for.
You could want a quiet bookworm, and somewhere there's a creepy who's just "too quiet" and he stares and mutters under his breath. You could want a guy that's "loves kids" and somewhere, there's a pedophile who counts himself in that group. Unfortunately, you have to be careful and smart. But try not to label all guys this way.
Personally, I'm not that abrasive, and I don't really think like that. Then again, the way I grew up, I'm not searching for the same things necessarily that a lot of boys are looking for. There are plenty of other guys who think like I do.1