I read a girl's profile before I email her and I make sure I pick something out of her profile to ask about so that it gets her talking about herself.
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Your profile picture is really cute so that can't be it. :) One thing that is a complete turn off when I looked at your profile is DIVORCED. I know you want to be honest about things on those kinds of website but when I see that I get very sad. My reasoning is that you already found "the one". I'm not sure why girls won't give you a chance. I would definitely respond to your message. Keep your head up and keep sending messages to girls. They will eventually send you something back. GOOD LUCK! :D0