After reading a previous responders stupidity I decided to ask. What would you do if you found out your spouse (married not dating) was having an affair?
I'll give 2 scenarios to think about just to make it interesting...
1- you walk in on them in the act.
2 - you find out through a little investigation or obvious signs (I.e. lover calls the house)
Now also consider this...
Your spouse's lover not only knows that he/she is married, but goes on to brag about their sex life to you? Then what?
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1. I'd probably start yelling and throwing things (preferably heavy things). But I don't know anything beyond that, like whether I could actually bring myself to speak to him afterward.
2. I'd try bringing it up and give him a chance to tell me the truth. If not, I'd confront him and then probably leave.
The last part is hard to imagine. But I'm spiteful and I'd want to inflict some emotional scars; I'd probably mention the fact that he never actually left me for her, so obviously she couldn't be THAT important to him. And that they're both trash. Physical damage would only get me in trouble.1