I have been friends with this girl for about five months now - we work together, hang out, whatnot. I wasn't really attracted to her at first for a couple reasons but now I'm finding that I really like her. I read a lot of posts on here about it and decided to be direct but not in a huge way - I told her that I think I'm developing feelings for her and she went berserk, accused me of deceiving her, being a creep, all sorts of weird sh*t. Needless to say I'm a bit turned off towards her now and I doubt I'll be speaking to her again as that's just plain crazy stuff.
I figured it was random but reading this site it seems a LOT of girls say that guy friends who develop feelings for them are bad people. So I guess my question is, girls why do you think this? Can't you understand that people can DEVELOP FEELINGS OVER TIME? Or are you so naive to think that people either become attracted instantly or never at all?
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I had a similar scenario last year with whom I though was a close friend (we had been for over 5 years) I had a boyfriend and all and for the first few years he had a long term girlfriend then 2 weeks prior to my birthday he spills his undying love for me and told me to choose between him and my boyfriend. Super SHADY! We haven't spoken since...And I am still with my boyfriend :)
There is a reason you're her "guy friend" ...she wasn't interested then she won't be she may give in to pity later but yeah it's a no go.