Should I text him ? I met a guy. he lavished me with text messages, attention, trying to see me all the time, take me out to dinner, and etc. We slept together on the 3rd date (very fast for me). My guard was up the 1st time we slept together. however,The 2nd time sleeping with him was different. I began to like him even there were a few red flags and a condom scare (I was on my period so I am safe according to doctor). He did mail me after the 2nd time, but the quality was different.
I wished him good night via phone call for no reason that night as I got home because when he was pursuing me, he was called all the time,wished me good morning, and good night. I decided to do it. it was an awkward exchange. I feel bad now, like I came off desperate.
I want to text him a simple "How are you?" because I haven't heard from all day.now nothing and I know he is busy with work. But he was texting me before with his busy work schedule. nothing?
Should I text him first or let him? How long should I go if I don't get a message? forget ?
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If you want to text him, do it. I realize we all over-analyze these things, but he's not likely going to look at it that way. Basically, he'll see it for what it is: you're thinking of him and wanted to say hi. If he likes that and wants to talk to you, he'll reply and you'll be back on track. If he wants to dump you, he'll ignore you and you'll have your answer. You're merely moving things along faster, because there is no way you are going to change a guys' mind to like you if he doesn't, or to make him not like you if he does, simply by saying "hi".0