would you ever date somebody in the military? due to the many deployments that I have had it has made it hard to just date one girl. don't get me wrong, I have had one night stands but it would be nice just to meet someone... so would you date someone like me?
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I am dating a guy in the military and we live on opposite sides of the border (Canada/US) which makes it even harder. It can be done but it's not easy and takes a lot of work. Communication is KEY. It depends on how serious and committed you are to making the relationship work. Trust is a big thing because we are apart a lot. I have to trust that when he is on deployment or dets he's not going to want to sleep around with the girls he meets at bars and he has to do the same to me. My boyfriend is in the Navy so his deployments are 6 months every 1.5 years. That's slightly more manageable to me than if he were away for 1+ year. I made it clear that if we ever had a future, I couldn't have him be away all the time and he understands that so he's willing to get out after his term is up.
It's possible. You just have to meet the right person.0