Is it a good idea to talk about ex's and past relationships on a first date?
Why do some people find it so necessary to immediately ask questions about past relationships?
Who were you with? How long were you with her? When did you break up? Who broke up with who? Was she good in bed?
- Yes that's the best thing to talk about!Vote A
- No that's probably not the best idea.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Do not talk about past relationships on a first date! Just like you don't want to talk about the future ( marriage, kids, etc) on a first or even first couple of dates. But for the past relationships discussion, it should be after a few dates where you both know that you're definately interested in spending time with each other and getting to know each other. If you don't like what you learn about your dates' dating history, then stop seeing him/her. But in general, people like to know a person's dating past so that they have something to go by as far as experience and what they've been through. Again, that's for probably date #3 or 4. First dates are basically small talk and having fun.0