I have a theory that EVENTUALLY girls eventually mature up and date a good and handsome guy.
My theory is that girls go many guys using them. Then they at some point get sick of the nonsense and any type of abuse they receive. The lady or ladies then meet a guy that they would NORMALLY not give a chance to, because they don't consider the guy the alpha male or super cute/hot. But that one fateful night, they give the guy a chance!
So what does it take for a girl to mature up, stop dating losers, players abusers and deadbeats?
Here is my theory! Maybe being used up by 3 losers, 2 players, 1 deadbeat and then crying alone for exactly two weeks!
Obviously, this is not a serious guess, but I am wondering ladies, do you EVER decide to meet someone who you know will make you happy and stop wasting your life with losers?
My serious guess is either the age of 28, or before that, after a guy has been used up for a very long time!
I wish I was a matchmaker or something. Guys and girls create so much dating nonsense!
when do girls become woman?
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I never deliberately dated an ass. Ever since I first started dating I've been on the look out for my perfect guy and some of the guys I met along the way were complete wastes and some not right for me...I've never been on the hunt for an alpha male just someone who understands me. I'm 25 now, after my ex I gave up dating for 5 years because I thought most guys were just not nice until destiny had my man walk into my life...women are different to men, most of us secretly want to meet the perfect guy and settle, obviously not all women, but a lot of us do and also a lot of girls don't really go out with a guy genuinely knowing he's a loser or not right, some hope they will eventually become the right guy having met them. I think from bad experiences, womens intuition and judgement of men improve, so rather than I guess it being a case of becoming mature, I think its more of a case of choosing better partners...like some women are naturally good at picking out guys ideal for them, some learn through experience and others never really learn and continue to date losers.6