So, I went on a date with this guy and we really hit it off. I knew immediately that he was attracted to me and he kept complimenting me the entire night. He acted like a gentleman, he was a great conversationalist and we talked the entire night. His pupils were also dilated. Anyways, we went out to dinner, he kept me laughing. Then we rented a movie and watched it at my place. Things got pretty heated. We started cuddling then we started making out. Like I said, things got pretty heated because we got so caught up in the moment.
I was straddle kissing him, and he was just grabbing me. He wanted to have sex with me but I told him I couldn't and he respected that. He did try again, but then he stopped. Even when we were kissing, he would stop, look directly in my eyes, and kiss my cheek, and then go back to kissing me passionately. Everything seemed like it was going great. There was a mutual attraction, intense chemistry, and a good date. We didn't even watch the movie.
What happened? Is he interested? Not to sound conceited but I am pretty attractive. I get asked out a lot but this guy is different from the guys I date... This is definitely a first.
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I don't have much experience in dating but I do like to read books about dating and relationships, so I will attempt and give you the best advice possible from my readings...
Number one: you did very good in not having sex with him too soon into the relationship, actually I just read a book that says that sex is OK after maybe 5 to 10 dates, according to Janis Spindel, her book is called "How to date Men". I recommned this book by the way is very informative and educational! Second, I would take the initiative and call him or email him whatever seems better for you, let him know that you had a great time and want to hang out with him again, take the initiative! you have nothing to loose! however if this guy does not answer your call or he doesn't want to hang out again, drop him, and move on to the next! I know you probably had a wonderful time with him but sometimes men think very differently from women and they often times seek for differetn things than we do. I would give him a call and see what happens from there, like I said hun you have nothing to loose, I'm very sure that you are an atttractive woman and another guy will come along. I hope my advise helped a bit!