So I got curious and decided to make a profile on an internet dating website. I met a few guys very quickly and now I'm having second thoughts on meeting them... partly because I don't wanna get kidnapped or anything and partly because I'm not sure if my friends or family would approve. The guys who wanna meet me are all like, 3-5 years older than me (I'm 18) which is not so bad but it's different for me. Also, one guy has a kid, another guy smokes weed, and these are things that are unheard of in my group of friends.
What do you think? Should I agree to meet them?
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Most certainly not. Stop and think about this very carefully; first consider who you are. You are young and inexperienced at dating altogether. You are using the Internet to meet people; the virtual bad-lands. If someone tells you that they are using drugs and you know good and well that you are completely clueless about this activity and it's culture, you already know the right answer to this question. I know you want to learn about things that interest you, but please consider the cost. You sound like a fine quality young lady. The influence of the poorly informed and misguided are not what your parents have taught you to value. They love you, so they ask that you use good judgement in all of your choices. Not to make them feel better, but to protect you from regret. Regret that you will surely have after you have allowed a person without good moral standards and honorable considerations to become close to you without supervision. Don't rush this dating thing, seek lots of good consul before you make any decision. And don't go out with anyone you (and your parents) don't know very well.0