My ex and I haven't talked in about 3 months. However we attend the same college and therefore see each other every week.
To make a long story short, we briefly dated, he wanted something serious but unfortunatly we didn't live in the same cities. Things ended pretty well, he's a barman and he always buys me drinks. He stares at me all the time and my friend caught him telling his flatmate that he still liked me.
He has a new girlfriend though.
Anyways, I'm leaving in two weeks and I want to text him because I want to see him one last time (alone)before I leave. The thing is we haven't been alone together since we broke up and we haven't reallt talked much ever since.
Is this a totally awkward idea?
If so, How can I make it not so awkward looking? I can't do it in person because his friends are always there.
I really hae to see him again.
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The two of you are friends and that is the most it will ever be now that he is committed to someone else. Why must you see him again? Are you confirming that it's just friends or are you looking for something else? You had your chance the first time, it's over now. He stares at you because he is thinking how things might have been and it's not easy to just let it go, he should get over it quickly if he's dating someone else now. Why isn't he talking? The best answer would be that he has this new woman and doesn't want any drama with anyone else. If there is some ulterior motive: WATCHOUT!
What do you see in this man? Just friends? If so, then it should not be awkward, particularly if you didn't have sex with him. If he still likes you, that's OK as long as it doesn't progress into some sort of lusting or jealousy. If you have some sort of fling for him that you didn't have the first time around, too late now...find someone else.
Text, call, or go see him. What do you want to say? Choose your words carefully.
Hope this helps0