OMG I just found out he's with some other girl so soon after he left me ironically because he didn't want a relationship at this time. I'm spazzing out. What should I do? I don't want him with some other girl while I'm NCing him and following the program to make him come back! Someone please just calm me down about this, is there still a chance that I can get him back? I've basically not been speaking to him at all, not replying on his facebook even though he's been liking things I'm posting, going out and doing a bunch of cool things and having fun and then posting pics on facebook that I know he'll see, and trying to act like I'm over it even though I can't sleep and I cry every day. Am I doing the right thing? Will he leave this chick and come back to me? What the hell is he doing?
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Don't read into all this other gibberish.
Even if he comes "crawling" back, do you really want to be with a guy like that? Goes out with another girl to make you jealous? Have some self respect. You deserve better.
Stop trying to justify why he hasn't done this or hasn't done that and focus on the one thing he did do...and that is dump you. Hey, it sucks, but it happens. You learn and move on.
What is so hard about this stuff? And why do people come back for more when they get dumped?
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