so here's the scenario...you go out, you meet some guy, he asks for your number which you give...
how important are the first texts? I.e. are you likely to lose interest if they're boring texts like just hi, how are you etc.or does it not matter.
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They're actually more important than I had previously thought (to me at least). I'm an outgoing person and It's important to me that the guys I date are also outgoing and can have good conversation. Before my boyfriend and I got together, I met a guy through mutual friends and gave him my number. After that, the conversations were extremely boring. Just Hi, how are you, 1 word answer type things. I tried to bring him out of his shell, make interesting conversation, and give it a few days of texting, but we just weren't meshing at all.
Soon after I met my boyfriend who I had amazing, interesting convo with right off the bat. He put in effort and it was like night and day. I quickly lost interest in meeting up with the first guy at all.0