OK so I tried a few of the online dating sites. I get girls that message me and say how much they love my profile and would love to get to know me. Two things happens 99% of the time.
1. I reply with , Hey I liked your profile too, I would love to get to know you, blah blah blah and they never respond.
2. We exchange emails but every time I bring up grabbing a coffee etc, they make up an excuse for not being able to. But they keep asking "What are you doing this weekend?"
A big attention game?
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I've been meeting people online since I was 14. What it comes down to is this, if a guy is persistent with me about meeting, I will back away.
Men and women seem to be on different schedules about when to meet when it comes to online connections.
Women are a lot more defensive when it comes to online encounters. We expect you to be a horny creep or just immature and disrespectful. And sometimes we don't even know what we truly want yet, we just want to see where things go. Not to mention a lot of people pull the whole picture stunt where they put up an old pic or something stupid and we meet them and it's a disaster.
I have never given a guy the run around online. If I am interested, I will make the effort and I am always open and honest about where I'm at, but I do move slow. So, all I can suggest is that you be open and honest about how you like to do things. Let them know you want to get to know them and meet and how long you expect that to take. Give them 2 chances and then move on. The biggest reason I have come across with girls giving the run around is because they are not real and just want to form that emotional connection.
Either way, you are going to go through A LOT of girls before you find a good one. Just don't give up. :)0