Dated a girl on/off for 3 months and split because of distance. We are both in new relationships but I do miss her. We were friends before we dated and always enjoyed each others company. We split mutually and agreed to stay friends but we never talk unless I initiate contact. I don't expect to talk all the time but the odd conversation would be nice. I thought we were both OK with friendship but the lack of communication seems to indicate otherwise. She used to initiate conversations but now seems totally uninterested. Perhaps she feels awkward doing so with her new boyfriend but I don't have a problem with my girlfriend knowing as I am not looking for anything else. it just seems as if everything changed after we dated but I don't see why it can't go back to how it was?
Should I ask her what's up or just leave her alone. If she doesn't want to be friends then that is OK but I'd rather she said so as I thought things could go back to how they were.
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You need to give it time. You may have been friends before, but dating did change everything. Give her some space and when she's ready to be friends she will come around.0