I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls and teachers).
She keeps saying I'm going to leave because of what other people (not true). What should I do?
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Either start standing up for her, confronting those who don't care enough to get to know her, with kindness and gentleness, or hunker down and expect it to get worse, until you become as much a pariah as she is, in their eyes. Personally, I would take some time, when the two of you are alone, and ask God to do something about it. Whether you believe in God or not, ask Him to change the situation and He will prove Himself by doing it. Just don't presume He will change the others more than He changes you two. It may just take some attitude adjustments on everyone's parts. Let God be God, and He will show you how much He cares about you.0