My ex and I broke up two years ago after a two year relationship. During these recent two years, we were on and off. Seeing each other and then spending a couple of months apart until he would come back wanting to see where things took us. This recent time, about a month ago, I thought we should really just give it our all and just go for it, but he was hesitant about jumping into a relationship and wanted us to "build" to this point.
All of a sudden, he just stopped talking to me for 2 weeks until I saw him at my girlfriends birthday party. We didn't speak two words to each other. After two weeks, I stumbled upon something on fbook and saw that him and this girl were in a relationship. He kept telling my friend that he was "confused" and all... could he have been talking or seeing this girlfriend of his behind my back to cause this confusion?
I've never been so shell shocked and confused! I am really hurt and wondering what the hell is up with this guy...
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It's very possible that he was seeing her without you knowing... but it sounds like you weren't in a committed relationship anyway. I can imagine that you'd be hurt, but I think the best thing is to let him go. Obviously he's not trustworthy enough for you to pursue this any further. Now, you'd probably like to get cloture or something like that, but sometimes life just sucks and you don't get cloture... so, do your best to forget him, meet someone else, and move on.0