this cute guy contacts me on a dating site saying he will be in town for a couple of days and he would like to meet. the same day we planned to meet sometime but he was kinda far away so by the time he was able to find a ride to come all the way to where I am I was already in bed and couldn't see him. he flew the next day home. I texted him saying I'm sorry we didn't get to meet, he then asked me to go visit him, he is in another state. he kept telling me that he'd love for us to meet and plus where he lives is so much fun, he promised to make it fun for me. I know we are both interested in each other, and feel bad we didn't get to meet. should I fly to him and have fun or is it too crazy as we barely know each other, but I feel there is potential. I always wanted to visit the city he lives in anyway. I really need advice, the last thing he told me is that he would love it I make it there very soon. please help and let me know the best thing to do in this situation. thanks
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Well, I say go for it, but have a back up plan lined up if he ends up being a dud in person, so you don't feel like you wasted your time going.
That being said, sometimes these things work out. My cousin met his wife when he was visiting Toronto at a Christmas party, and after he moved to the UK he invited her to visit him in London and she came here, they had a blast, and over the next year they ended up taking vacation after vacation together and she eventually moved to London to live with him and they ended up getting married this year. It was definitely an odd way to date, but if it could work for them living in different countries, I think going to another state could be worth it. who knows? He might end up being the love of your life!0