So this girl that I liked from work a few months ago randomly text me it said "Hello :)" back when I worked with her since then she quit I was under the impression she liked me(inviting me to her house, calling me. asking me out to the movies etc) then I found out she only liked me has a friend. Then one day I found out she was dating this guy that I also worked with that she claimed she hated. This pissed me off so I deleted her # and never called again that was like 2 months ago last time I saw or talked to her and earlier she sent that text at 730 didn't realize that I got it. Didn't know who it was at first since I didn't have the number was programed had just had a feeling it was her so I asked a friend and they said it was so what does she want? I know she's going through a rough time her parents just got a divorce and her mom can't afford their farm without their dad so now they have to sell it. I know she's going through a lot should I mention it or wait till she says something sorry I'm not good at these question things and seem to babble on and on sorry that's it thanks for any advice you guys can give me
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Wait. Why the hell would she need to apologize to you? So she disliked the guy she was dating, why is that a big deal? And even if she had lied to you, does that suddenly mean you shouldn't be nice to her? If she's really going through what you said she is, how can you just stand by and not be there for her, especially if you said you liked her.
And besides, you don't even know why she texted. Maybe she really is interested in you, maybe she wants to talk about what happened, you don't know because you never found out. You don't even know the reason for her possibly lying to you about the guy at work. Basically, you've immaturely jumped the gun, especially with deleting her number and whatnot. I mean seriously, how immature is that?
If you really cared, then show it, because it seems like you definitely enjoyed this girls company also.2