This could be my final stand so be considerate and only constructive comments. So about a couple months now I have been dating someone who is very special to me. Everything flows great she only has been flaky a few times but we seemed on a road to a real relationship. I have done nothing wrong not clingy or nothing I did everything right. I just can't get over the fact that she is checking her dating profiles (Match/Plenty of Fish) and does not bother to contact me not online but on the phone. I had a feeling I was going to have to fight for her and I'm doing so just not sure how long I continue this self destruction with having feelings for her. Seems like I am only a option and I don't know what to do or address this.
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Ask her to take it down. Tell her you've noticed it and that it bothers you. There is no point in being with someone who abuses your trust in this manner. If she wants to be with you it isn't going to be an issue, if she doesn't want to be with you, it's better to find out now, before you are even more emotionally invested.
If she's dating you and still "fishing", she's just not that into you and is using you until the next best thing comes along, if she is that into you, she'll take it down without issue.
PS: This isn't about controling someone's behavior, its about trust and respect. There isn't a control issue here, there's a respect issue. Big difference.1