It seems like I live in a world where there are no guys. When I was 17, I was like, no big deal, it will happen someday...
But it didn't. Then I started closing myself off, I felt weird because I'd never been kissed by a guy, never been touched... never even held hands!
Then I felt like there was something wrong with me, and I had a lot of trouble with body issues, but I am mostly over that now, I'm relatively confident in myself, and I know its not because of how I look. But I just can't seem to signal to guys that I'm open, omg I'm SO open!
But I worry about it pretty much every day, I feel like a refugee from the 1800s! So, my question is...
How weird is it that I've still never been kissed?
Once I get a guy close enough to kiss, should I tell him he's the first?
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Hey hey, it's okay!
Contrary to popular belief, there is no race to be kissed, or have a boy/girlfriend, or be in love. These things happen for us all at different ages of our lives.
I'm sure a guy would not mind it one bit if you told him you've never been kissed, so don't be afraid to tell him whenever that time does come. :)0