This guy asked me to hang out with him after school next week.he's really shy and not perverted.im 14 and he's 16 I know kissing on the lips is out of the question on a first date but what about a hug or holding hands or is that coming on to strong.but I want him to know I'm into him
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Whatever you feel comfortable with is fine. If you want a more specific suggestion, try a hug or something. Holding their hand certainly isn't being too forward, but I've just always felt it was something done by two people who care about each other, rather than two people who just met.
I'm trying to remember what grade a 14yo would be in. Hm. 8th? 7th? *shrug* Just be careful. Go somewhere public. I'm sure I'm being paranoid, but I don't know either of you. As for letting him know you're into him, you do that by agreeing to hang with him and agreeing to go on a second date. Don't think that (especially at your age) you have to do anything physical to get his attention. If that's what he wants, you don't want him.
I don't mean to be condescending by mentioning your age, but it's certainly a factor. I've known far too many teen mothers to look past it. ;o Good luck.0