So this guy I'm seeing isn't very good at kissing (it's just tongue and I feel like he's eating my face)...how can I get him to kiss better without hurting his ego/feelings? I like him a lot and don't want him to feel bad.
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You could just tell him that you don't really like it, just don't finish speaking there. His response could probably be - in one tone or another - something like "Well how am I supposed to know what you want?" Follow it up with some positive points if there are any, and follow that up with what you would like and by clearly telling him how he can improve. He will be concerned and it might hurt his ego a little, but he'll really make an effort to improve if he hears the real truth, and if you keep telling him, "Yeah, it's still not very good, but it's much better" and "That was much better" and "That was really good ;)" then in the long run he'll get over it fine and his ego will make a full recovery, he may even become more confident.