I was with this guy and we've been friends about 4 months. I want to be with him bad and I get the feeling that he wants me too but he doesn't make a move. I'm not shy about stepping to the plate but I want to know for sure before I put myself out there. I'm confused because he does things like hugging me in public, staring at me when he thinks I'm not looking, kissing me in front of his friends, and even eskimo kissing in the movies, and he tries extremely hard to make me laugh, but I don't know what that means? Does he want more or is this just some sort of foreplay since we're having sex casually?
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BE CAREFUL! Usually, it's a guy's actions that tells everything, but sometimes you need confirmation as well. I hung out with this guy who was like my bff and everything was perfect...until he started finding things wrong with me-the same things that he use to like. As it turns out, he had started dating someone, but it took for me to make a random comment about another guy for him to say something about it. I learned then that if a guy is truly interested in you, he will express it, both physically and vocally. It's not algebra. I have no problem expressing my feelings to a guy, but I've learned to cool it and let him give me a signal because if he is really interested, he will do what he needs to do to make sure that there is no question about it. He's showing you how he feels, but make sure that he's saying it too. Now, I'm dating someone who does both so there is no question about it.0