OK so I have in the last month been on three dates with three different guys...and they all seemed to go OK and they told me they thought it went great and they would say I'm really pretty and nice etc and say that we should meet again...then I would text them the next day and they change and they seem to send the odd text saying yeah we will meet up but nothing comes of it...why be so full on on a date and say all this or am I doing something to instantly put them off me?,...and no I never slept with anyone of them x
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"then I would text them the next day "
That's possibly it, right there.
It is very much a cliché, but even if a date goes well, there should be a period (I think the average for guys would be closer to three days) of distance, without calls/texts. It helps you to look back at the date with a clearer perspective.
If I met a girl for a date on the Friday, and got a text from her on the Saturday, I'd think the following:
1) I didn't make plans to see her Saturday. Doesn't she know I've most likely got plans of my own today?
2) Doesn't she have any plans of her own? Ah heck, is she a johnny-no-mates kind of girl?
Next time you have a date that goes well, give it a few days before you contact the guy again.0