I'm curious but do you message people first? do you get a lot of responses?
do you wait for others to message you first?
have you ever met someone that way?
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I've tried online dating twice, once about 2 years ago and am currently trying it again. The first time I didn't message people first much at all, just waited to see if people messaged me. Well I had no luck. This time I have been more active in messaging women and have gotten much better results. Most girls do not message first, but my advice is to message first if you want. If you see a profile you like just send a message of a few sentences referencing something they listed in their profile that you found interesting. It's better to be active in going after what you want than waiting for it to come to you.0