In two days(friday) I'll have my second date with a girl.
The first time(last thursday) we went to a bar and I paid for the drinks(25 euros or something).
I was wondering am I expected to pay again friday? I mean I'd be okay with it, but at the same time I'm a student and haven't got THAT much money, especially if I have to keep paying every date.
so what am I gonna do?
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i would never expect a guy to pay for me.
eg if we went to the cinema and he bought my ticket I'd buy the drinks, etc, till I felt like I had payed him back.
even if you asked me out, if we were exclusivley dating and you said "as it Valentine's day I want to take you for something to eat" that means you pay, but I would still buy like either an extra nice present to say thanks or for a taxi there and back so we can both drink and enjoy our selves.
just say you ask her to the cinema just randomly say while waiting for tickets "i'll get yours if you get the snacks or we can just pay sepratley"
if she doesn't really like you and is just getting a free day out, she might just dump you eventually,