I'm a nice guy, and I think I'm decent looking, but I've had no success at all picking up the girls I like, they always turn me down and I always feel like sh*t, I'm not comfortable with someone until I've known them for a while and its at the point now that I really think online dating is a good choice, what are some things I can talk about and maybe a few icebreakers I could use when talking to someone online?
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I had an eharmony account. They're pretty good as far with the icebreakers, guided communication to get to know people before you actually chat. I never met anyone interesting, though (probably because I limited what states I wanted matches from). But that's a great website, and I actually know someone who met her husband on there. My eight grade english teacher was seeing a guy she met on eharmony, and now they are married and have children. You never know where you're going to meet "the one", but you'll know it when you do. :)
Also, what type of girls are you going for? Are you basing it solely on looks? If so, that is the wrong choice. I know this is mean, but have you ever heard the saying "I may be fat, but you're ugly. I can lose weight, but you can't fix ugly." In a way, that is true. Someone may not appear as pretty as others, but appearance changes over time. However, if a person has an ugly inside (awful personality), chances are that they can't fix that unless they want to. Most people who are like that don't change because they don't want to. But maybe you're looking for the wrong girl. Or maybe you're just looking in the wrong places? Whatever the case may be, you'll find her someday whenever the timing is right. :) Hope this helped a little.0