How many dates until you are boyfriend and girlfriend?

What is a good rule of thumb? Especially for high school/college if age range makes a difference. Is there a different number if it is long distance? I know it isn't official until you talk about it, but when is a good time to talk?


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  • I actually became boyfriend/girlfriend after the first date. Otherwise? No idea about what is actually the optimal. xD

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  • I'd go by weeks. 5 weeks

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  • I dated my boyfriend for 4 months before we became boyfriend girlfriend. We were in a mutually exclusive relationship the entire time but we didn't label things. It became official when we both realized that we started to refer to each other as "my boyfriend/girlfriend" instead of "the guy/girl I'm dating" when talking to others.

    Going along with your age and distance inquiry. I'm 20, he's 26, and we live in the same city.

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