I had a really nice first date last Thursday. The guy was really gentlemanly, held doors for me, paid for my drinks, and kissed me on the cheek when we parted ways. He asked if I'd like to get drinks again soon and I said "sure, you have my number." He seemed excited when he said bye, being like "Bye Jane". But I haven't heard from him. Should I send a text, or wait it out and figure he's not interested?
Great date last Thursday, said we'd hang again, haven't heard from him....should I send a text?
What Guys Said 2
Do you want to see him again?
Do you miss him in a " Oh he is really intresting! I'd love to meet him agian"-way?
Do you find him attractive in any sort of way?
Does he fit your mold?
If 3 of these questions are answered with "Yes" Then send a text! Maybe he is feeling the same about it? going all " Why hasn't she texted/called me? Oh my what if she didn't like me? Oh god did I do something wrong? it was the tie. It must have been the tie!" ( yes some guys actually worry like this too ladies. )
So my guess would be yes. send a text! Tell him you enjoyed his company and wondered if he is free some day soon!0
Don't worry he's proably playing that hard to get game as he's learned that being too open to girls will leave them unattracted to you. Just don't seem phased by it and let him text you now. If he thinks you've moved on , he'll come back like a dog chasing a bone. You've already shown that you're interested by initiating texts ( which LOTS of girls DON"T do) so if he doesn't text back then move on cos he was playing childish games.0
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